Here is what my host mom in America told me: "I promise you this, this is probably not going to be your last relationship. Nor is your next one probably going to be your last. But I promise you that every relationship you have from here on out, will be better than the one before. Because you will be wiser and make more informed decisions about who you pick to share your life with. The more you know yourself, the better your choices get."
Und damit hat sie recht, aber auch irgendwie nicht so ganz. Später mehr dazu.